1) n. It is okay to be the subject and focus on yourself from time to time. 2) v. But allow yourself to be an action predicated on things like love, hope, and virtue. Compliment others, remembering you are part of a bigger picture, a larger community. 3) Do not wear any single label, allow yourself to be defined by more than one thing. 4) Allow your life to have multiple meanings and your name be synonymous with many connotations.